Murphy’s Law states that ‘anything that can go wrong, will go wrong’. For those who got acquainted with Murphy in 2022, here are some solutions to break the relationship off with Murphy in 2023.
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1. Start a relationship with good Karma
Karma is the consequences of someone’s actions current and previous determining someone’s fate or destiny. We can look at this fate as either a good outcome, or a bad one. Murphy’s law tends to intertwine itself with bad karma. Since we have the power of free will, we can start the year 2023 working on a better relationship with good karma to kick Murphy to the curb.
Examples of good karma actions
- Learn the art of Good Karma
- Do something good for the environment like plant a tree so Murphy doesn’t throw lightening bolts at you during a bad storm.
- Be a better friend or co-worker by uplifting them with listening and compliments as well as offering gifts to show you care like the classic ‘you’re awesome’ coffee cup gift for a co-worker or a fun ‘partner in crime’ friendship bracelet for your bff.
- Make friends with a new neighbor and offer a helping hand if they need anything. Here’s a good neighbor conversation starter article to help start a new relationship with your neighbor who is most likely better than Murphy.
- Practice little good deeds throughout the day like letting someone go ahead of you when driving, letting someone else take the spotlight, and helping someone with their groceries.
2. Learn how to play chess
What does chess have to do with dumping Murphy you might ask? Well, you need a good offensive and defensive game to avoid Murphy and Murphy doesn’t know how to play chess so you would have the game advantage in 2023. Learning something new is also always a way to meet someone new. This someone new could simply be a new you.
Take some time for yourself to get into the right mindset for the year 2023. Gift yourself a nice chess board that will challenge you and once you get the hang of the game, you’ll soon start to apply the chess strategies to everyday life. Defensive strategy that can avoid life from going wrong and offensive strategy that makes the game of life go in the right direction towards your goals.
3. Start a new health cycle
Starting the new year with a resolution like eating healthier, quitting bad habits, and exercising more is cliché, but to avoid things going wrong especially with your health in 2023, you gotta bite the cliché bullet. For some of us, you can’t avoid health issues all together, but you can gain a knowledge of life working towards a healthier balance between you, those around you, and the environment balancing all living things. Learning about Ayurveda is a great start towards a new health cycle.
4. Build your confidence
Like most toxic relationships, even if you find a way to release yourself from Murphy’s negative grip, your confidence may remain at an all time low. The next step in 2023 to break away from Murphy’s Law is to rebuild your self-esteem or confidence. To rebuild confidence is no easy feat and you’ll need help to achieve this goal for 2023. The best way to rebuild your self-esteem is to get help from Jen Sincero. A #1 New York Times bestselling author, success coach and motivational cattle prod who’s helped countless people transform their lives. Her #1 New York Times bestseller, You Are a Badass: How to Stop Doubting Your Greatness and Start Living an Awesome Life is exactly what you need to work on this challenging feat for 2023.
5. Set New Goals for 2023
How could you survive the new year if you didn’t know what was holding you back and what you needed to do to survive? I have helped identify what’s holding you back which is Murphy’s law and your mindset from the year 2022. The next step is identifying what exactly you need to do to break Murphy’s Law. This is done by setting specific goals. Turns out, there is a big process to setting these types of goals and actually achieving them. Mike Pettigrew, who is recognized as an expert in helping ordinary people to achieve extraordinary goals, helps make this process easier by teaching us The Most Powerful Goal Achievement System in the World.
Don’t let any types of Murphy’s get you down for the new year. A new year is a chance for transformation, rebuilding, and new adventures. Get away from toxic relationships and move towards a good path for you to survive and thrive this new year.